Patience is so important when growing out your hair. You need to choose a style that you can live with while it's growing out. Even in three months you may not notice a big difference. It takes a curl two and a half times to wrap around itself to form a ringlet. It's a very slow process. If you want to grow out your hair, you must take care of the condition of your hair. Find a style for the length of hair you have now to at least enjoy the growing out process. Maybe a shorter version of what you want to achieve… become an expert in frizz control! Note: the journey can be more enjoyable than the destination.